Gratitude...

I am grateful for a lot of things in my life. Although my family may not be the best family on this planet, but in my heart, they are "loving" and "caring" enough for me to make me feel like for who I am, as long as I exist, I will always be loved and cared for willingly and unconditionally... and for that, I am grateful...

I may not have a prince who is close to me now, but at the faraway La La Land's Kingdom, but I'm glad to know that, through good and bad times, through up and down moments, my prince will always stand by me, willing to listen to everything I need to say, comforting me, cheering me on, and always love me for who I am... and for that, I am grateful...

I may not have the most normal bunch of friends in the world. They are just downright juvenile, freaky, girly, dreamy, and sometimes, clumsy , but I am too, and I am happy to have everyone of them around filling my life with joys and excitements, and I am grateful to have called them "my friends"

I may not belong to the most privileged elitists category who are able to get everything they ‘want’, but I don't bother to care anyhow for I already have all the things I “need” just to live this "modest" life with those whom I love and love me the same way I do... and these should be more than enough for me.

All in all, for everything that I have, though life may seems a little too harsh at times, but I consider myself as a happy princess with a happy life... and yes, for all these, I am truly... grateful...

Incomplete...

There are times when I feel like I just want to twist back the time to the point where i don't have anything to worry about, but live my life the way I feel like I should. Sometimes, I feel like i am a type of hopeless drama princess who desperately thirsts for love and care from those around me. I began searching outside of my immediate cycle hoping that one day, miracle happens, and I would have the chance to get what I've been looking for. I cherish everyone's love for me, even though it was just a hint because I just can't afford to live my life in the world without love, well, I just can't :( However, as time passes by, I started to realize that I don't need to go and seek for love anymore, because everyone around me actually does loves and cares for me, and for who I am, I will always be loved and cared for as long as I exist. People accept me the way I am, witty, juvenile, extrovert, though a bit too emotional sometimes, or perhaps, most of the time :)

For those who wonder why I can always put a smile on my face even when everything doesn't seem to turn out right, I just wanna say that you are wrong. Who said I am everyday.com, happy? Well, I cry too, and I even admit that I do. I cry a lot, or probably too much till that I just don't want anyone see me crying.

Even now, by the time I was writing this post down, I don't really feel like myself, I meant, i feel like at this point again in life, I just feel like something is missing from my life... something that makes me feel incomplete without it. I just don't know how to explain this feelings, besides saying that I don't like this changes... *sigh*

I keep my head up to the sky, and told myself, Barbie! Be strong, and whatever comes, everything will be going just fine. Hey, I can still give myself a slight comfort smile though deep down inside I could feel my heart weeping... hmm.... ignore my nonsense :)

Importance

"just when you thought that someone is important to you, you kinda Assume that you are as important to them as well. yet little signs n actions of theirs, cruelly awaken you from dreaming - you may not be as important after all..."


I guess I've always overated the importance of myself. I've always thought that people also care for me the same way I do, but not at all. I was wrong, and I am always wrong.

They keep telling me that they really love and care for me, but what they did, what they do, and what they have done do not seem so. Everything about me, what I need, what I want, what I feel, they never bring a damn. Even if I died, perhaps, they would just cry for 1 min, and not for long, I would be quickly forgotten.

With you taking me for granted, I do not mind at all, because I can't just expect people to do something good for me that I don't deserve, but please, I beg your pardon! Do not say you love and care for me if you don't or you'd better not say anything at all because it hurts me so bad to love you all the way I do, and then turn around seeing how much you don't care... Don't make promise you can't keep because you disvalue yourself and the one you gave your words to. It might be easy for you to forget, but not for me. Be real, be who you are, and stop acting so fake.
I wish I were able to read and understand people's state of mind, so that I wouldn't be having one-sided love for them. Sounds so pathetic? I hope not

"I must believe it's over now
I tell myself that I musn't cry...
My heart is aching but it never will show...
And learn to live my life again somehow
Then I won't care if you don't care for me "

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The italic part is sincerely credited to Princess Levian. Someones who put my feelings into words. Someones who makes me wanna get close, and get to know her, simply because she is something so rare, unique, but real...

With Love,
Barbie

Insults

Insults, harsh words, negative statements are what we have heard and will continue hearing at any points in our journey of lives, or perhaps we are the one to say all these ourselves, no?

I remember the time my Sister said "I hate you!" to me. It is hurtful regardless the fact that I was just a greeny little girl back then fighting for the dolls to play.

To make it simple, any forms of insults hurt esp when you get that from those whom you absolutely adored likewise your parents, your siblings, your best friends, .... you name it.

Sometimes, people turn to lose their control whenever they are under stress or got pissed off. They then act like a mad bullshit splashing their anger towards other people without realizing that their freak'en harsh words might unfortunately break those people's hearts. I've always told myself not to take all things seriously to my heart since everyone could tell that no one is EVER perfect, but I wonder why i still got hurt?

To say "I am sorry" towards those who got their hearts breakdown because of you might not as easy as it may sound because, most of the time, their egos pop up, and the two people might just walk away to end up their conflicts. They begin to alienate one another as if they are nothing, but a two total strangers. However, some of them are quite desperated to say "I am sorry", but they don't have the courage to say so. They, in turn, find this as an awkward situation as they are just afraid that they would never be forgiven. Such a lame excuse!

I won't deny that everything might never be the same again between the 2 people, but everything needs time, no? Though we could never take back all the hurtful words we uttered back, but it's great to, at least, let our loved ones know how sorry we are for what we've done, don't you think? So, I think to say "I am sorry" is the best way to solve the problem out. Ermm... hold on! This sounds a little funny cuz I sometimes can't even do this myself, and which is why I've lost you...

Lumo!

I know that I might be a little too late to post up this antique out-of-date post lol... But you can't put a blame on me cuz I just appeared to came across it VERY recently lol... how recent it is? Just last night people! So, yeah, it is the up-to-the-minute piece of crap AT LEAST to me ^ ^ *wink wink*

Well, if the girl reading this just tell me if all these statements correspond to your daily reactions or not? However, if you're a guy, I do recommend you to spare some time reading this, cuz at least you can predict we girls' state of mind, and reaction ^ ^ Lol... Have fun reading,

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Words Women Use

Credited to Ebaumsworld

+FINE
This is the word women use to end an argument when they feel they are right and you need to shut up. Never use "fine" to describe how a woman looks this will cause you to have one of those arguments.

+FIVE MINUTES
This is half an hour. It is equivalent to the five minutes that your football game is going to last before you take out the trash, so it's an even trade.

+NOTHING
This means "something", and you should be on your toes. "Nothing" is usually used to describe the feeling a woman has of wanting to turn you inside out, upside down, and backwards. 'Nothing" usually signifies an argument that will last "Five Minutes" and end with 'Fine'.

+GO AHEAD (With Raised Eyebrows)
This is a dare. One that will result in a woman getting upset over "Nothing" and will end with the word "Fine".

+GO AHEAD (With Normal Eyebrows)
This means "I give up" or "do what you want because I don't care" You will get a "Raised Eyebrow Go Ahead" in just a few minutes, followed by Nothing" and "Fine" and she will talk to you in about "Five Minutes" when she cools off.

+LOUD SIGH
This is not actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A "Loud Sigh" means she thinks you are an idiot at that moment, and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you over "Nothing".

+SOFT SIGH
Again, not a word, but a non-verbal statement. "Soft Sighs" mean that she is content. Your best bet is to not move or breathe, and she will stay content.

+THAT'S OKAY
This is one of the most dangerous statements that a woman can make to a man. "That's Okay" means that she wants to think long and hard before paying you back for whatever it is that you have done. "That's Okay" is often used with the word "Fine" and in conjunction with a "Raised Eyebrow.

+GO AHEAD
At some point in the near future, you are going to be in some mighty big trouble.

+PLEASE DO
This is not a statement, it is an offer. A woman is giving you the chance to come up with whatever excuse or reason you have for doing whatever it is that you have done. You have a fair chance with the truth, so be careful and you shouldn't get a "That's Okay."

+THANKS
A woman is thanking you. Do not faint. Just say you're welcome.

+THANKS A LOT
This is much different from "Thanks." A woman will say, "Thanks A Lot" when she is really ticked off at you. It signifies that you have offended her in some callous way, and will be followed by the "Loud Sigh." Be careful not to ask what is wrong after the "Loud Sigh," as she will only tell you "Nothing."

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Before ending up this post, Princess Barbie'd like to annonce that we girls might be a complex hard to understand creature to you, but DON'T forget that Men are said to be from Mars, and Women are from Venus! We both derive from 2 different planets, and we are ment to be different both mental and physical.

Guys generally expect the girls to be more like him, and so do we girls. I admit that it's impossible to read the girl's state of mind like reading the book! Every girl is magically UNIQUE, or watever adj which can be used to describe the REAL us!

You guys have what we girls don't have, and we girls have what you guys don't have, and that is why Yin and Yang are 2 inseperable elements. The girls won't be THAT complex if you don't make us be, only if you get what I meant lol... =) So, we should just try to understand each other more, and accept the fact that no one is EVER perfect =) Study, find out, and know it!

P.S. Lumo is what the characters in Harry Potter need to say before turning on the LIGHTS! ^ ^ So now you know why I entitled this post with the word Lumo! *evil grin*

Me & My Prince

One: People who have been tagged must write their answers on their blogs and replace any questions that they dislike with a new question formulated by themselves.

Two: Tag 5 people to do this quiz and those who are tagged cannot refuse. These people must state who they were tagged by and cannot tag the person whom they were tagged by. Continue this game by sending it to other people.

Before I start! Wanna know who the naughty culprit is? That one is my cute princess Mei Mei

! ^ ^ Ok, let's start the game! lol... the game? Watever!

1. If your lover betrayed you, what would your reactions be?
In my entire life, I seriously loathes betrayals! When it comes to my prince, I'm sure I would be shaking in disbelieved, my heart would definitely drop *anyone care to pick it up?* LOl... I would have my heart breakdown ~ ~ Plus, If I had the magic wand, I would turn my prince into a scary ugly frog! ^ ^ Otherwise, I'm afraid that I couldn't control myself not to give him a slap or maybe something more serious than that lol... Alright, let be abit more serious, I would just walk away, give us some more times before jumping to any ultimate decision, just wanna be reasonable, and that is it.

2. If you can have a dream to come true, what would it be?
To be able to find where I exactly belong which would be the only comfort zone on the planet! That place is somewhere unknown to me at the moment, but I still have somewhat of feeling that it is where I can have every important things in my life there! My prince, my family, my friends, my fairy Godmother whom will be there to make my next dreams come true... lol... ^ ^ What a huge wish! Lol...greedy greedy! heh heh...

3.Are you satisfied with the way your life is right now?
Yes, I am, just that I still have the random feeling of not belong ~ ~ Don't ask me why! I am uncertain about this myself either, and which is why I have to look for it! =)

4.What's your ideal lover like?
The prince in my dream has to be someone who:
+ is a well-educated person? yeah, this would make a big change in one's positive attitue... :)
+ Love me not because of what I am, but WHO I am! Only if you get what I mean ^ ^
+ Be by my side and never let me feel ignored and uncared for ^ ^
+ Hug me when I get scared, when I am down, or just hug me everyday because I'm sure his hug can surely make me feel warm and everyday.com protected!
+ Reasonable, understanding, loving, caring, and forgiving! Do I need to write everything here? I guess no, so I'll get a public talk show for those who are curious to find out what the prince in my dream is like ^ ^ Dreams come true? Who knows! lol...

5.Which is more blessed, loving someone or being loved by someone?
Come on! Both is the best ever in a term of relationship!

6.What is the one thing that pisses you off about the opposite sex?
I don't understand what is on the guys' minds sometimes! Simply because we are from 2 different planets! ~ ~
***I don't wanna repeat this over and over again, so for those who are curious to find out why, follow these links given (^___^)
+Secret Reason When Men & Women Argue
+What's the Matter?
+Women Are Like Waves

7.How far will you go for the one you love the most?
How far? No boundary, I guess! Oopsss! Sounds so silly! lol... I would do things more than people can think of

One word to describe yourself"
D-E-M-A-N-D-I-N-G! o_O

If you fall in love with two people simultaneously, who would you pick?
Love 2 people simultaneously? o_O That won't happen! Funny question! ^ ^

Okay! Okay! Alright! Alright! The 5 lucky people Princess Barbie gonna tag are:
1/My Beloved Princess BBYin
2/Che Che Chobits, My Dear Sister
3/Koun Derk Hour Hour, My Turtle Friend
4/Mei Wah Dear
5/My Cute Little Pika

Ice Princess

I am Barbie, in fact I am not? I've been pondering this kind of question to myself " Who Am I?" To me right now, everything is merely a blur. I am no longer the one I thought I was at this point of time. Strong, greeny, carefree, optimistic, courageous? You can't definitely see all these qualities in me no more, and needless to say, I just don't deserve them.

Back to the bygone... I started off my life as an innocent little baby crying out for people's care and attention, especially from Mom and Dad. I wouldn't stop crying if my need hadn't be fulfilled. Life goes on, I then gradually learned how to crawl, to walk, to run, to stand, to sit, to talk properly, to potty-train, to say " Daddy!" and " Mommy". In my journey of life, I learn lots of new things down the road, and I love trying new things as well. When things go right, I have my sincere appreciation of how much joys of life has stored for me. Everything is just enough, and perfectly fine. When suddenly, I got stuck in the maze, leaning hopelessly against the wall asking why life has been so cruel to me?

I am too delicate. I tend to get lost and frustrated at the slightest matters, I get scared at stupid things. I see a glass filled with water as an empty one. Deep down inside of me, I've always wanted to be a perfect person, but things just turned out the opposite way. To be frank, I know myself as much as I don’t know myself. I’m like half an open library and half the restricted section. I am sick of floating around without knowing where to go. I wish I knew more about myself...

No one could tell what's exactly on my mind right now. If you came over, and had a quick look, you would think I am not much different from an ice princess, unspoken, lifeless and emotionless... Nothing can be conveyed from this poor weeping heart of mine...I can't believe all the great thing between me and my best friend has now come to an end...There's lots of things left unsaid beyond our broken relationship... I know I'm the worst enermy of all time... Enough rambling!

When Relationship Ends

Time quickly moves, relationships change; folks settle down develop, communication's gone, and after all two great friends gradually drift apart. Is it my fault? My best friend's, or both's? I once told myself to move on since my head could tell that I was attempting to hold on someone that has never thought to be here for me.

We started off very well, but we ended up as if our 3 years relationship doesn't mean a thing. All the great memories between me and my best friend have engraved deeply till it is too hard to let go. Our relationship is not neccessarilly different from a one way street of my friend's walking away, and me walking back home alone feeling worse than when we first started. I wish I hadn't known that one T_T

I laugh at myself reading my previous entries about letting go and moving on. I am the worst enermy of all time, I am a terrible liar to myself. I can only say it, but can never make it. What's going on with my mind right now? That one isn't willing to make any efforts to salvage this relationship. That one has now changed to a different soul, that one doesn't care for me no more, that one isn't missing me as I do, that one has forgotten my existence in this world either, but I, in turn, tend to remember the vivid memoir of that one?

It's not easy to lose someone you love, someone you can get along with very well. I don't know what to do right now. I just want to scream though I know that my voice is practically do not matter and unheard. Lord! I'm hurt really hurt T_T Why I have to be such a poor casualty in this wonderful world while everyone is hanging around and smiling? Not fair! What I am crying out for? since there is absolutely no one to console me. Everyone keeps telling me that things will be different down the road, but how come I can only see things as the way they already are. Is it the way my life destined to go?

" Barbie, before giving up, ask yourself: Will your life be better off without this person? Does this person understand how much s/he means to you? Is there any misunderstanding in between?" *sigh* I can't get any answers to these questions yet, it's the matter of time, I guess.

Well, I do know that I can never make, change, or even heal someones to be who I want them to be, especially when they are the ones to resist the change :( Hopefully, time will help me lessen my pain... How long? Not sure, maybe One Day...

Can I Move On?

Anyone could tell how much we people should trust virtual reality? Why is that finding the one who is closely related to talk to is this desperated? Searching for the one who share unique personality with you, the one whom you can get along with very well, the one who can manage to sit and listen to your everyday thoughts and feelings without any judgments is not as easy as it sounds. I really wish there were any people out there understand how I feel.

Well, yeah, with me writing all these gist emotions of mine down, most people would say I am an over dramatic, cynical, sadistic, or insane. Only few would say I am realistic, optimistic, and honest. I don't literally know what I want to say at all, that's why I label my post as a random one.

I've been noticing that when two people become good friends, they generally do not say so, but the rainbow of their hearts could tell that they are meant to be together in this world. Everthing is always enough and perfectly fine. For their hearts, they have never felt that they are alone at all. Any kind of simple discussion about personal stuffs becomes secrets which is practically shared willingly and unconditionally with the hope that the security of their frindship is strong enough to protect their sanctity.

When suddenly one day, they start to feel like they are gradually drifing apart. All the trust is gone, the great affection between one another is unconsciously lessen, confusion galore, and needless to say, hurt is an understatement.

So what happens when there is no trust in a relationship? When trust gone, they can just do nothing but to live in their seperate lives. After all, the matter of their choices is the only one factor to decide whether they should just walk away by ending things up like that or to find each other back and become great friends again. Unfortunately, most of the time, their egos pop up, and in the first place, they decided to let go without saying a word.

I've always remind myself that surrendering is the ridiculous things which is commonly practiced by the fools. Maybe I'm wrong to shun the realiy, but you know I'm kind of lost right now since there are lots of thing left unexplained, and it's now piled up till that it's too late to do a thing. I did give myself a try, but it is something out my control. Time quickly moves, people also keep changing, no one can ever stay the same forever, so I'm ready to move on. How well I can do? I don't know, just give me some time first :)

" Sometimes letting go is so hard, but it is easier than holding on something that isn't there." I'm I right?

Oh well, I myself don't know what I am talking about, this is just a random page of my diary. Have a nice day, everyone.

Secret Reasons When We Argue

"Credited from Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus"

Ok, so who wanna complain first??? I guess Lady First, right? Ok, this is ladies' platform to do the shout out :P

The Secret Reasons Women Argue

1- " I don't like it when he minimizes the importance of my feelings or requests. I feel dismissed and unimportant. "
2- " I don't like it when he doesn't respond to my questions or comments. It makes me feel like I don't exist."
3- " I don't like it when he blames me for being upset. I feel like I have to be perfect all the time to be loved, but I am not perfect."
4- " I don't like it when he raises his voice or starts making lists of why he is right. It makes me feel like I am wrong and he doesn't care about my point of view."
5- " I don't like it when he explains why I should not be hurt, worried, angry, or anything else. I feel invalidated and unsupported."
6- " I don't like it when he thinks I am his nanny, I just wanna give him my comments."
All in all, I just don't understand him.

The Secret Reasons Men Argue

1- " I don't like it when she gets upset over the smallest things I do or don't do. I feel criticized, rejected, and unaccepted."
2- " I don't like it when she starts telling me how I should do things. I don't feel admired. Instead I feel like I am being treated like a child."
3- " I don't like it when she worries about everything that could go wrong. I don't feel trusted."
4- " I don't like it when she expects me to do things or talk when she wants to, but I don't."
5- " I don't like it when she feels hurt by what I say. I feel mistrusted, misunderstood, and pushed away."
6- " I don't like it when she expects me to read her mind. Its damn hard, I just can't do it. Why doesn't she just tell me right away? "
To sum up, I just don't understand her.

Don't take this serious guys, just for fun :)

What's the Matter?

When a woman asks " What's the matter?"
-A man says:
+"I'm OK."- a woman may respond "I know sth's wrong. Wat is it?"
+"I'm fine." - she then says "But you seem upset. Let's talk"
+"It's nothing."- She says "I want to help. I know sth is bothering U. Wat is it?"
+"I'm alright."- She asks "Are you sure? I'm happy to help you."
+"It's no big deal."- She says "But sth is upsetting U, I think we should talk."
+"It's no problem."- she then says "But it is a problem. I could help." Shut Up! Leave me ALONE!!!

Uh Oh! Wat a meany guy he is! He seems upset, and we girls just wanna cheer him up by asking wats going on with him, but look at the ways he answered to our concerning questions! :(

Heh Heh, gentlemen! I honestly don't mean to generalize you all as a meany, but just wanna let you know that we girls don't wanna see ur frowning looks or to see anyone get upset, thats y we wanna do sth for help. So, don't be this mean, ok? Oh, you think we girls are annoying, huh? We're not that annoying, but we are being sensible and sympathetic.

Wat if we got upset from ur words and tend to walk away??? Some of you would run after us huh??? Just kidding lah, but hopefully you would do that, cuz it was ur fault :P I'm I right, girls???

Women Are Like Waves

A woman is like a wave." When she feels loved and cared about from people around her, her self-esteem rises and falls in a wave motion. When she feeling really good, she will reach a peak, but then suddenly her mood may change and her wave crashes down. This crash is temporay After she reaches bottom suddenly her mood will shift and she will again feel good about herself.

The inner corner of her life is like a terrible dark well with no one understand her feeling, and I dare to say that "during this down town she especially needs to talk about problems, be heard; understood; and cared about". Know wat? When a woman goes into her "well" she is consciously sinking into her unconscious self, into darkness and diffused feeling. She may suddenly experience a host of unexplained emotions and vague feelings. She may feel hopeless, thinking she is all alone or unsupported. So, people's attention is the special portion to cure this mental sickness, cuz she will automatically rise back up when her emotional need is fulfilled. Weird??? Yes, indeed. I don't know wat to do either, cuz we are just like this... We are very demanding, right? Watever you think guys. I have no idea.

" Life is filled with rhythms-day and night, hot and cold, summer and winter, spring and fall, cloudly and clear. Likewise in a relationship, men and women have their own rhythms and cycles. Men pull back and then get close, while women rise and fall in their ability to love themselves and others"

Hey guys, its all about trying to understand mutual feelings, so that we're not gonna misunderstand, amazed, or frustrated seeing gals getting upset with no reason... This is the real us...

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With Courtesy to Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus =)

Love & In Love's Definition

All the words in the English dictionary is not enough to describe LOVE, becuz the thing is love is extraordinarily beyond words, actions, feelings and thoughts. Let's say:
- Love can make people happy and smile, but at the same time Love can make ones sad and cry.
- When you love someone, you unknowingly feel happy to be with him or her and you will definitely want to cease the time not to move forward, cuz you don't want the time to take this joyful pause away from you.
- You really want to see the one you loved every second, want to know how is that one doing?
- You're happy when you see the one you love dearly happy and smile, but you just feel real sad when you see ur loved one cries, you might also want to cry with him or her. Who knows, it depends.
- You're jealous whenever you see the ones you luv with someone else besides u.
- When he or she is not around, you really miss that one terribly, and you feel all alone even there are thousands of people around you. Don't ask me why guys? cuz I dunno either... :P

"it is hard to say it in general. However, to me to be in love is to have a mixed feeling of missing, the need of love and care, a sense of jealousy towards a person who you can spend time with him/her without getting bored, and the more time you spend with him/her, the more you don't want time to move forward," said Sis Kalyan.

So to sum up, love is about commitment, care, compromise, feeling good to talk, to see, and to be with. Its about wanting to spend the rest of ur life with the ones you love. Even we are not gonna live for eternity, but the word Love for people means eternity. Acceptable conclusion?

Oh well, Love is UNDESCRIBABLE!!! It means more than I can find the exact words for its definition. Wat else you can sacrifice for love? EVERYTHING you have? One who suffer from heart broken can be completely cured??? If u're heart broken and you don't know where to go, come to me, cuz I'll use my magical bandage to cure ur broken heart :P

Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus

"Women simply do not just accept the truth that they are being loved by us. They want us to go to extraordinary lengths to show that we love them. Maybe gals who are reading this comment out there should really take what i have just uttered into your consideration for the sake of your healthy and long-lasting relationship".

Well,I just got back from P.M.'s blog this evening, and I also bring the original comment from one of the blogger along as well. I've got to admit that I honestly don't mean to attack or to defend anyone, but the above issue of misunderstanding in maintaining relationship has really got under my skin for long, and when I accidentally ran into the comment up there on P.M.'s blog, I therefore can hardly afford not to talk about it.

It's true dat MEN & WOMEN are totally different both mental and physical, as can be seen from the title above " Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus". This implies that we derive from 2 totally different planets. However, without understanding that men and women are supposed to be different, its is indeed a temptation to think to urself dat men shoudn't be "that way" or women shouldn't react "that way". Men & women can be the same in some cases, but not literally all the time.

A guy expects a girl to be more like him, and so does a girl. [quote] "Most men have little awareness of how crucial it is to a woman to feel supported by someones who cares. Women are happy when they believe thier needs will be met. When a women is upset, overwhelmed, confused, exhausted, or hopeless all she needs the most is simple companionship. She really needs to feel she is not on her own in this world, she needs to feel CONSTANTLY loved and cherished."[quote]

[quote]"Empathy, understanding, validation, and compassion go a long way to assist her in becoming more receptive and appreciative of his support. Men don't realize this becuz their instincts tell them its best to be alone when they are upset, out of respect he will leave her alone, and he thinks he can make matter worse by trying to keep reassure her. He does not instinctively realize how very important of closeness, intimacy, and sharing are to her. What she needs most is just someone to listen and to be right beside her not to let her fall."[quote]

Becuz women keep demanding to be loved and cared from the men, he then find it ridiculous cuz he has nth to give her more, he does love her dearly, he's done the best he can to prove that he luvs her terribly, but why she keeps asking his special care and attention from time to time??? Oh man!!! The perfect answer to this question is WE ARE DIFFERENT!There's a lot more men and women should learn from each other, and if you really wanna find out more how different we are, you can go and get yourself the best-selling guide book with the title given above. Its too much to be pointed out here. I'm sure you gonna feel amazed cuz wat you read in the book is like you're reading about wat you truly are. Its all about you...

Credited to Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus :)