Self-Reasurrance

Last night, I was trying to turn in earlier than usual, but I have no idea why I was more than wide awake until dawn. Sleeping surprisinlgy turned to be sth very deperate even music, my very best companion, couldn't do anything for help. I actually didn't wanna hurt my head thinking about the imperfections in my journey of life, cuz the more I try to think about it, the more complicated it becomes.

There were various questions popped up in my head, and up to now, I still can't find the exact and reasonable answers correspond to those tough questions yet. I sometimes thought to myself that why all the dreadful and unexpected things keep happening, and how come, I can't even have chance to get wat we truely wish for? Why being alive is this hard? Would it be great if I was not here in this world? Is it morally right that everything happens for a reason? Can I escape from it? ...(sigh) You see? Even we do know that asking ourselves this kind of questions is just some kind of making life even more dull, bitter, and utterly poinless, but we just can't take off our minds not to think about it. Whewwww.....

Oh well, nth can be done to fix every single imperfection, so why not let it go, and keep going no matter wat. All these things might sometimes seem horrible, painful, and unfair to us, but when we successfully over come them, we will see how potential our will and our heart is. :)

"Winners never quit, quitters never win"
"Giving up doesn't mean we are weak, but sometimes we are strong enough to let go"
If you have to choose between these 2 quotes, which one sounds better to you?

H@PPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!

When you was with me:
- We argued for the heck of borrowing but not returning each other's stuffs.
- We fought for the remote control almost everyday.
- You made me cried and laughed at the same time.
- You tried to listen and to understand even when I was not making sense.
- You laughed at my jokes even its not literally hilarious.

Sis, for everything that you are, I LOVE YOU VERY VERY MUCH INDEED. You are out of our sights, but you have never ever got out of our minds. Just want you to know that I haven't got scold for awhile, and I do miss it.

Home is not the same without YOU!!!
Hurry Home!!! We miss and love you with all our hearts :) XOXOXOXO
Have a wonderful and sparkling BIRTHDAY!!! * Hugs *

Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus

"Women simply do not just accept the truth that they are being loved by us. They want us to go to extraordinary lengths to show that we love them. Maybe gals who are reading this comment out there should really take what i have just uttered into your consideration for the sake of your healthy and long-lasting relationship".

Well,I just got back from P.M.'s blog this evening, and I also bring the original comment from one of the blogger along as well. I've got to admit that I honestly don't mean to attack or to defend anyone, but the above issue of misunderstanding in maintaining relationship has really got under my skin for long, and when I accidentally ran into the comment up there on P.M.'s blog, I therefore can hardly afford not to talk about it.

It's true dat MEN & WOMEN are totally different both mental and physical, as can be seen from the title above " Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus". This implies that we derive from 2 totally different planets. However, without understanding that men and women are supposed to be different, its is indeed a temptation to think to urself dat men shoudn't be "that way" or women shouldn't react "that way". Men & women can be the same in some cases, but not literally all the time.

A guy expects a girl to be more like him, and so does a girl. [quote] "Most men have little awareness of how crucial it is to a woman to feel supported by someones who cares. Women are happy when they believe thier needs will be met. When a women is upset, overwhelmed, confused, exhausted, or hopeless all she needs the most is simple companionship. She really needs to feel she is not on her own in this world, she needs to feel CONSTANTLY loved and cherished."[quote]

[quote]"Empathy, understanding, validation, and compassion go a long way to assist her in becoming more receptive and appreciative of his support. Men don't realize this becuz their instincts tell them its best to be alone when they are upset, out of respect he will leave her alone, and he thinks he can make matter worse by trying to keep reassure her. He does not instinctively realize how very important of closeness, intimacy, and sharing are to her. What she needs most is just someone to listen and to be right beside her not to let her fall."[quote]

Becuz women keep demanding to be loved and cared from the men, he then find it ridiculous cuz he has nth to give her more, he does love her dearly, he's done the best he can to prove that he luvs her terribly, but why she keeps asking his special care and attention from time to time??? Oh man!!! The perfect answer to this question is WE ARE DIFFERENT!There's a lot more men and women should learn from each other, and if you really wanna find out more how different we are, you can go and get yourself the best-selling guide book with the title given above. Its too much to be pointed out here. I'm sure you gonna feel amazed cuz wat you read in the book is like you're reading about wat you truly are. Its all about you...

Credited to Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus :)

Answer to the Riddle

I don't think I should let you all wait for the answer to the previous riddle any longer, so tell me, are you ready to find out who exactly that someone is?

Alright, there are 2 answers noticably corresponded to my riddle, since Vandy obviously intended to get it wrong. No problem, Vandy(^,^). My very first glance over ur comment, you already put a smile on my face. You're so hilarious, I can say that. Thks for taking part in solving this riddle with us lah...(^,^)

"That someone must be you, your own reflection, Barbie or maybe your best of the best friend," this is wat the rest of you answered. Hmmmm...... congratulationsssss!!! Among these 2 responses, one of them is the answer I've been looking for(^,^).

Well, I said I hated Mondays, and that someone also hates Mondays either. Also, that someone get identical taste of wearing the same clothes in exactly the same color. This may happen with me and ma own reflection. However, even I like eating a lot, but I don't think I can manage to devour the whole pizza in 15 mins, to gossip about blah blah blah, and to talk on the phone for 2 hours ALONE!!! Hee Hee, Sister Kalyan, Vattey, Vendy, if Barbie really do those kinds of things on ma own with no company, Wahh Wahh Wahhh..... I'm afraid you 3 wouldn't see Barbie anymore, cuz the thing is Barbie reached the peak of being insane talking on the phone alone!!!! Hahh Hhahh I can't even afford to imagine wat to do if that unfortunately happened to me.

So, that someone in this riddle is obviously not my own reflection, or someone unreal, but my very best of the best friend. I'm pretty sure that some of these things might occasionally happen with you and your friend either not only with me. I'm I right? Heh Heh, Vattey!!! You got it right lah even with 2 attempts lah...

Who That Someone Is?

Solve this riddle, and you have a chance to win absolutely nth, just for fun lah, cuz even if I have the give away, you gonna say, Whewwww this is an easy riddle, Barbie!!!!! Are you looking down on me??? (^,^). Alright, here is the riddle:

-When you said " I hate Mondays!!!!!! Mondays are no good!!!!!", suddenly you heard someone repeated ur previous complain back at once that " So, do I, I hate Mondays!!!! Mondays are Ugh Blech "
-That someone has the same taste in clothes, and one day, you ran into each other face 2 face when you and that someone are wearing the same clothes and of course in the same color. You then said " Hey, thats my color!" " No, its my color either, COOL, isn't it? "
-You and that someone love to gossip about Blah Blah Blah
-You and that somone can talk on the phone about absolutely nothing for 2 hours!!!
-You and that someone can DEVOUR the WHOLE PIZZA in 15 mins!!! ( Chomp Munch Scarf Yum Yum )
You and that someone enjoy watching old-sit com reruns together
-You and that someone think about exactly the same thing, and say it out at the same time!!!
-When that someone give u a depressed look, you then appear to have the sad feeling inside of you with no specific reasons. The thing is you and that someone are bond-together.

So, are you able to determine who that someone is? Its an easy riddle, isn't it?

The Maze of Life

I personally find my life as a puzzle with many pieces in it. A puzzle won't be completed again if you unknowingly lose any one of it. Its definitely true that we don't know wat we've got until we lose it. ( sigh ) From Valentine's Day, I appear to realize I've lost sth very important to me. Don't get me wrong, guys! I'm not neccessarily focus on serious relationship, but Oh My! I'm in doubt wat I've lost myself. Could you help me to find wat I've lost? I can't believe a smiley happy Barbie as always can be lost in a MAZE!!! Hope there might be any of you could help me to figure out wat I've lost. Otherwise, just keep this post as another memory of my journey of life. I'm I right?

Let me start then. (Sigh) Well, when I was in senior high school, I had a best of the best friend, and I got along very well with her. Everywhere I go, you'd see my friend there either. I remember, one day she got sick, and she couldn't come to class as normal. I was all alone even there were lots of students in my class. I didn't feel literally right, I was so worried, I wanted to go and see how my dear frind was doing now. All in all, I felt more than blank till I can find no words to describe how I felt at all.

Time passed by, nth can last forever, the joyful pause I got just faded away becuz we had to go to different colleges which is somewhere we individually deserve. Up to now, I still keep in touch with my best friend occasionally on the phone or by texting each other, but it seems like we're constantly getting far from day to day. I'll try the best I can to maintain this precious freindship as long as it could be. Hopefully, I can do it.

Let me go on, anyway. Recently, with another new step of my journey of life at college, I also found another best friend who serves some sorts of unique personality, and I know at once that she is meant to be here in my life. However, I am just wondering why I can manage not to love her TOO MUCH like I did when I was in senior high??? She took a day off today for V-day with her family, I did feel alone, but not as dreadful as when I was younger. Or is it becuz I am now becoming a big gal and getting wiser with life??? Oh man!!! The more I try to think about the bottom line, the more complicated and frustrated I get. I shouldn't have hurt my head thinking too much all these things, should I? Eveything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. So, yeah, let wait and see why all these things happen??? Wat for??? Wat the reasons to make all these things happen???

H@PPY Valentine's Day!!!!!

Friends are the greatest,

Freind are heart to heart talks, and remember when stories

friends believe in you when you cease to believe in urself,

V-day isn't just about couple and romamnce,
Its about FRIENDS and SHARING and yes its also about LETTING the people you care about know how special they are in ur life...(^,^).

Have you said HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY to those special people yet??? As for me..., I DID IT!!! I'm more than happy seeing people I care alot for HAPPY & SMILE!!!

May you showers with love on this wonderful V-day!!! (^,^) Happy Valentine's Day everyone!!!!